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Tuesday, June 23, 2009
alright, i was about to sleep alrd .. then i saw this on Andy's blog , about Relationships . "It shouldnt be he controlling the relationship. Neither should it be her controlling the relationship. Shouldnt it be just both controlling the relationship? Had a really nice talk with the gang just now and all of us shared our views. Its pretty amazing how different people think differently and it all lead to the same thing, happiness. The minute that you chose to be with that person. Doesnt it mean that the both of you are going to go through both pain and happiness? When a couple quarrel, it simply means that him/her cares. They care because they love you. If a couple doesnt quarrel, it means they dont care. And it simply just mean that the love has gone away. Emotions surface because you care for that particular person. You will feel jealous, angry, pissed, sad, disappointed, fear, happy, fortunate, blessed and last but definitely not the least, loved. Doesnt it feel weird that why on earth can one individual evoke so many emotions in you. Doesnt it feel weird that this person can make you feel damn happy and suddenly damn pissed the next minute. Its because both of you feel each other. The stupid things that people do for love are things that makes the relationship special. Being there for each other is also important. Be it sad, angry, frustrated or happy moments. Both can be angry and fuck each other up at that point in time. But after that, chill. Then talk to each other about it. Say out everything. Why, what, how each other feel. Everything has to be nutured. If two person are meant to be together, it is because they spend a hell long time to going through thick and thin. They fuck each other up and make up after that. make up ah, not make out. aiya make out also can. We all gotta give and take. We can't keep giving, neither can we keep taking. If we keep giving and not taking, there'll be nothing left to give. And if we keep taking and not giving, there wont be enough space to keep the things we took. Most importantly, Trust. It can be earned or nutured. eh, im seriously out of words. Theres alot on my mind, seriously alot. And i cant seem to pen everything down. But thats the gists of it i guess. Oh and lastly, i saw this phrase and it really did a great impact on me. "Love is a journey, not a destination" " maybe all these that are happening now , is because i'm caring too much . i feel like i'm giving too much , & thr's nothing more for me to give you . altho me & you aren't couple, but its the 'love' in this friendship thats making me $%^&$!! thanks friend , why must it be you, always be the one , making me damn happy, & fcking me up the very next moment. emotions ; are all overflowing because of you . sometimes i question myself , am i valuing this friendship too much . is it still worth it. _______________________________________ |
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